Thank you, indeed there are 3 profiles for my provider on the Fritzbox (A1, A1 GPON and A1 Ethernet WAN), the GPON one seems to be the default and doesn't offer any options for traffic shaping but the 3d and 1st one show some config option for speed where I can set upstream and downstream speeds, i will try this later.
Maybe I'll try that when I'm feeling adventurous, contacts with their "help"-line are somewhat of an unpleasant experience ...
the output of tc -s qdisc from the Belkin RT3200 but with only the lan attached
qdisc noqueue 0: dev lo root refcnt 2
Sent 0 bytes 0 pkt (dropped 0, overlimits 0 requeues 0)
backlog 0b 0p requeues 0
qdisc mq 0: dev eth0 root
Sent 33691 bytes 292 pkt (dropped 0, overlimits 0 requeues 0)
backlog 0b 0p requeues 0
qdisc fq_codel 0: dev eth0 parent :10 limit 10240p flows 1024 quantum 1518 target 5ms interval 100ms memory_limit 4Mb ecn drop_batch 64
Sent 0 bytes 0 pkt (dropped 0, overlimits 0 requeues 0)
backlog 0b 0p requeues 0
maxpacket 0 drop_overlimit 0 new_flow_count 0 ecn_mark 0
new_flows_len 0 old_flows_len 0
qdisc fq_codel 0: dev eth0 parent :f limit 10240p flows 1024 quantum 1518 target 5ms interval 100ms memory_limit 4Mb ecn drop_batch 64
Sent 0 bytes 0 pkt (dropped 0, overlimits 0 requeues 0)
backlog 0b 0p requeues 0
maxpacket 0 drop_overlimit 0 new_flow_count 0 ecn_mark 0
new_flows_len 0 old_flows_len 0
qdisc fq_codel 0: dev eth0 parent :e limit 10240p flows 1024 quantum 1518 target 5ms interval 100ms memory_limit 4Mb ecn drop_batch 64
Sent 0 bytes 0 pkt (dropped 0, overlimits 0 requeues 0)
backlog 0b 0p requeues 0
maxpacket 0 drop_overlimit 0 new_flow_count 0 ecn_mark 0
new_flows_len 0 old_flows_len 0
qdisc fq_codel 0: dev eth0 parent :d limit 10240p flows 1024 quantum 1518 target 5ms interval 100ms memory_limit 4Mb ecn drop_batch 64
Sent 0 bytes 0 pkt (dropped 0, overlimits 0 requeues 0)
backlog 0b 0p requeues 0
maxpacket 0 drop_overlimit 0 new_flow_count 0 ecn_mark 0
new_flows_len 0 old_flows_len 0
qdisc fq_codel 0: dev eth0 parent :c limit 10240p flows 1024 quantum 1518 target 5ms interval 100ms memory_limit 4Mb ecn drop_batch 64
Sent 0 bytes 0 pkt (dropped 0, overlimits 0 requeues 0)
backlog 0b 0p requeues 0
maxpacket 0 drop_overlimit 0 new_flow_count 0 ecn_mark 0
new_flows_len 0 old_flows_len 0
qdisc fq_codel 0: dev eth0 parent :b limit 10240p flows 1024 quantum 1518 target 5ms interval 100ms memory_limit 4Mb ecn drop_batch 64
Sent 0 bytes 0 pkt (dropped 0, overlimits 0 requeues 0)
backlog 0b 0p requeues 0
maxpacket 0 drop_overlimit 0 new_flow_count 0 ecn_mark 0
new_flows_len 0 old_flows_len 0
qdisc fq_codel 0: dev eth0 parent :a limit 10240p flows 1024 quantum 1518 target 5ms interval 100ms memory_limit 4Mb ecn drop_batch 64
Sent 0 bytes 0 pkt (dropped 0, overlimits 0 requeues 0)
backlog 0b 0p requeues 0
maxpacket 0 drop_overlimit 0 new_flow_count 0 ecn_mark 0
new_flows_len 0 old_flows_len 0
qdisc fq_codel 0: dev eth0 parent :9 limit 10240p flows 1024 quantum 1518 target 5ms interval 100ms memory_limit 4Mb ecn drop_batch 64
Sent 0 bytes 0 pkt (dropped 0, overlimits 0 requeues 0)
backlog 0b 0p requeues 0
maxpacket 0 drop_overlimit 0 new_flow_count 0 ecn_mark 0
new_flows_len 0 old_flows_len 0
qdisc fq_codel 0: dev eth0 parent :8 limit 10240p flows 1024 quantum 1518 target 5ms interval 100ms memory_limit 4Mb ecn drop_batch 64
Sent 0 bytes 0 pkt (dropped 0, overlimits 0 requeues 0)
backlog 0b 0p requeues 0
maxpacket 0 drop_overlimit 0 new_flow_count 0 ecn_mark 0
new_flows_len 0 old_flows_len 0
qdisc fq_codel 0: dev eth0 parent :7 limit 10240p flows 1024 quantum 1518 target 5ms interval 100ms memory_limit 4Mb ecn drop_batch 64
Sent 32049 bytes 277 pkt (dropped 0, overlimits 0 requeues 0)
backlog 0b 0p requeues 0
maxpacket 0 drop_overlimit 0 new_flow_count 0 ecn_mark 0
new_flows_len 0 old_flows_len 0
qdisc fq_codel 0: dev eth0 parent :6 limit 10240p flows 1024 quantum 1518 target 5ms interval 100ms memory_limit 4Mb ecn drop_batch 64
Sent 0 bytes 0 pkt (dropped 0, overlimits 0 requeues 0)
backlog 0b 0p requeues 0
maxpacket 0 drop_overlimit 0 new_flow_count 0 ecn_mark 0
new_flows_len 0 old_flows_len 0
qdisc fq_codel 0: dev eth0 parent :5 limit 10240p flows 1024 quantum 1518 target 5ms interval 100ms memory_limit 4Mb ecn drop_batch 64
Sent 0 bytes 0 pkt (dropped 0, overlimits 0 requeues 0)
backlog 0b 0p requeues 0
maxpacket 0 drop_overlimit 0 new_flow_count 0 ecn_mark 0
new_flows_len 0 old_flows_len 0
qdisc fq_codel 0: dev eth0 parent :4 limit 10240p flows 1024 quantum 1518 target 5ms interval 100ms memory_limit 4Mb ecn drop_batch 64
Sent 1642 bytes 15 pkt (dropped 0, overlimits 0 requeues 0)
backlog 0b 0p requeues 0
maxpacket 0 drop_overlimit 0 new_flow_count 0 ecn_mark 0
new_flows_len 0 old_flows_len 0
qdisc fq_codel 0: dev eth0 parent :3 limit 10240p flows 1024 quantum 1518 target 5ms interval 100ms memory_limit 4Mb ecn drop_batch 64
Sent 0 bytes 0 pkt (dropped 0, overlimits 0 requeues 0)
backlog 0b 0p requeues 0
maxpacket 0 drop_overlimit 0 new_flow_count 0 ecn_mark 0
new_flows_len 0 old_flows_len 0
qdisc fq_codel 0: dev eth0 parent :2 limit 10240p flows 1024 quantum 1518 target 5ms interval 100ms memory_limit 4Mb ecn drop_batch 64
Sent 0 bytes 0 pkt (dropped 0, overlimits 0 requeues 0)
backlog 0b 0p requeues 0
maxpacket 0 drop_overlimit 0 new_flow_count 0 ecn_mark 0
new_flows_len 0 old_flows_len 0
qdisc fq_codel 0: dev eth0 parent :1 limit 10240p flows 1024 quantum 1518 target 5ms interval 100ms memory_limit 4Mb ecn drop_batch 64
Sent 0 bytes 0 pkt (dropped 0, overlimits 0 requeues 0)
backlog 0b 0p requeues 0
maxpacket 0 drop_overlimit 0 new_flow_count 0 ecn_mark 0
new_flows_len 0 old_flows_len 0
qdisc noqueue 0: dev lan1 root refcnt 2
Sent 0 bytes 0 pkt (dropped 0, overlimits 0 requeues 0)
backlog 0b 0p requeues 0
qdisc noqueue 0: dev lan2 root refcnt 2
Sent 0 bytes 0 pkt (dropped 0, overlimits 0 requeues 0)
backlog 0b 0p requeues 0
qdisc noqueue 0: dev lan3 root refcnt 2
Sent 0 bytes 0 pkt (dropped 0, overlimits 0 requeues 0)
backlog 0b 0p requeues 0
qdisc noqueue 0: dev lan4 root refcnt 2
Sent 0 bytes 0 pkt (dropped 0, overlimits 0 requeues 0)
backlog 0b 0p requeues 0
qdisc htb 1: dev wan root refcnt 2 r2q 10 default 0x10 direct_packets_stat 0 direct_qlen 1000
Sent 0 bytes 0 pkt (dropped 0, overlimits 0 requeues 0)
backlog 0b 0p requeues 0
qdisc fq_codel 110: dev wan parent 1:10 limit 1001p flows 1024 quantum 1514 target 5ms interval 100ms memory_limit 4Mb ecn drop_batch 64
Sent 0 bytes 0 pkt (dropped 0, overlimits 0 requeues 0)
backlog 0b 0p requeues 0
maxpacket 0 drop_overlimit 0 new_flow_count 0 ecn_mark 0
new_flows_len 0 old_flows_len 0
qdisc ingress ffff: dev wan parent ffff:fff1 ----------------
Sent 0 bytes 0 pkt (dropped 0, overlimits 0 requeues 0)
backlog 0b 0p requeues 0
qdisc noqueue 0: dev br-lan root refcnt 2
Sent 0 bytes 0 pkt (dropped 0, overlimits 0 requeues 0)
backlog 0b 0p requeues 0
qdisc noqueue 0: dev br-lan.1 root refcnt 2
Sent 0 bytes 0 pkt (dropped 0, overlimits 0 requeues 0)
backlog 0b 0p requeues 0
qdisc noqueue 0: dev br-lan.10 root refcnt 2
Sent 0 bytes 0 pkt (dropped 0, overlimits 0 requeues 0)
backlog 0b 0p requeues 0
qdisc htb 1: dev ifb4wan root refcnt 2 r2q 10 default 0x10 direct_packets_stat 0 direct_qlen 32
Sent 0 bytes 0 pkt (dropped 0, overlimits 0 requeues 0)
backlog 0b 0p requeues 0
qdisc fq_codel 110: dev ifb4wan parent 1:10 limit 1001p flows 1024 quantum 1514 target 5ms interval 100ms memory_limit 4Mb ecn drop_batch 64
Sent 0 bytes 0 pkt (dropped 0, overlimits 0 requeues 0)
backlog 0b 0p requeues 0
maxpacket 0 drop_overlimit 0 new_flow_count 0 ecn_mark 0
new_flows_len 0 old_flows_len 0
qdisc noqueue 0: dev wl1-ap0 root refcnt 2
Sent 0 bytes 0 pkt (dropped 0, overlimits 0 requeues 0)
backlog 0b 0p requeues 0
qdisc noqueue 0: dev wl0-ap0 root refcnt 2
Sent 0 bytes 0 pkt (dropped 0, overlimits 0 requeues 0)
backlog 0b 0p requeues 0
qdisc noqueue 0: dev wl0-ap1 root refcnt 2
Sent 0 bytes 0 pkt (dropped 0, overlimits 0 requeues 0)
tc -s qdisc from the device I've got connected currently which has two ethernet interfaces with a working sqm configuration:
qdisc noqueue 0: dev lo root refcnt 2
Sent 0 bytes 0 pkt (dropped 0, overlimits 0 requeues 0)
backlog 0b 0p requeues 0
qdisc cake 8009: dev eth0 root refcnt 9 bandwidth 100Mbit besteffort triple-isolate nonat nowash no-ack-filter split-gso rtt 100ms raw overhead 0
Sent 370707426 bytes 574730 pkt (dropped 1479, overlimits 756027 requeues 3)
backlog 0b 0p requeues 3
memory used: 535296b of 5000000b
capacity estimate: 100Mbit
min/max network layer size: 42 / 1514
min/max overhead-adjusted size: 42 / 1514
average network hdr offset: 14
Tin 0
thresh 100Mbit
target 5ms
interval 100ms
pk_delay 11us
av_delay 6us
sp_delay 1us
backlog 0b
pkts 576209
bytes 372828312
way_inds 57
way_miss 1018
way_cols 0
drops 1479
marks 0
ack_drop 0
sp_flows 4
bk_flows 1
un_flows 0
max_len 1514
quantum 1514
qdisc ingress ffff: dev eth0 parent ffff:fff1 ----------------
Sent 859969803 bytes 734812 pkt (dropped 0, overlimits 0 requeues 0)
backlog 0b 0p requeues 0
qdisc mq 0: dev eth1 root
Sent 159393379962 bytes 151374171 pkt (dropped 6, overlimits 0 requeues 14240)
backlog 0b 0p requeues 14240
qdisc fq_codel 0: dev eth1 parent :8 limit 10240p flows 1024 quantum 1522 target 5ms interval 100ms memory_limit 4Mb ecn drop_batch 64
Sent 14247008908 bytes 20200544 pkt (dropped 0, overlimits 0 requeues 1099)
backlog 0b 0p requeues 1099
maxpacket 1522 drop_overlimit 0 new_flow_count 1031 ecn_mark 0
new_flows_len 0 old_flows_len 0
qdisc fq_codel 0: dev eth1 parent :7 limit 10240p flows 1024 quantum 1522 target 5ms interval 100ms memory_limit 4Mb ecn drop_batch 64
Sent 31715545547 bytes 23624850 pkt (dropped 0, overlimits 0 requeues 652)
backlog 0b 0p requeues 652
maxpacket 7610 drop_overlimit 0 new_flow_count 575 ecn_mark 0
new_flows_len 0 old_flows_len 0
qdisc fq_codel 0: dev eth1 parent :6 limit 10240p flows 1024 quantum 1522 target 5ms interval 100ms memory_limit 4Mb ecn drop_batch 64
Sent 14897976714 bytes 13524166 pkt (dropped 0, overlimits 0 requeues 703)
backlog 0b 0p requeues 703
maxpacket 1522 drop_overlimit 0 new_flow_count 564 ecn_mark 0
new_flows_len 0 old_flows_len 0
qdisc fq_codel 0: dev eth1 parent :5 limit 10240p flows 1024 quantum 1522 target 5ms interval 100ms memory_limit 4Mb ecn drop_batch 64
Sent 61175050700 bytes 44074855 pkt (dropped 0, overlimits 0 requeues 9033)
backlog 0b 0p requeues 9033
maxpacket 1522 drop_overlimit 0 new_flow_count 6223 ecn_mark 0
new_flows_len 0 old_flows_len 0
qdisc fq_codel 0: dev eth1 parent :4 limit 10240p flows 1024 quantum 1522 target 5ms interval 100ms memory_limit 4Mb ecn drop_batch 64
Sent 11486586823 bytes 11113302 pkt (dropped 0, overlimits 0 requeues 652)
backlog 0b 0p requeues 652
maxpacket 13698 drop_overlimit 0 new_flow_count 527 ecn_mark 0
new_flows_len 0 old_flows_len 0
qdisc fq_codel 0: dev eth1 parent :3 limit 10240p flows 1024 quantum 1522 target 5ms interval 100ms memory_limit 4Mb ecn drop_batch 64
Sent 6283127852 bytes 12298177 pkt (dropped 6, overlimits 0 requeues 634)
backlog 0b 0p requeues 634
maxpacket 1522 drop_overlimit 0 new_flow_count 957 ecn_mark 0
new_flows_len 0 old_flows_len 0
qdisc fq_codel 0: dev eth1 parent :2 limit 10240p flows 1024 quantum 1522 target 5ms interval 100ms memory_limit 4Mb ecn drop_batch 64
Sent 10892730667 bytes 13517465 pkt (dropped 0, overlimits 0 requeues 715)
backlog 0b 0p requeues 715
maxpacket 13698 drop_overlimit 0 new_flow_count 578 ecn_mark 0
new_flows_len 0 old_flows_len 0
qdisc fq_codel 0: dev eth1 parent :1 limit 10240p flows 1024 quantum 1522 target 5ms interval 100ms memory_limit 4Mb ecn drop_batch 64
Sent 8695352751 bytes 13020812 pkt (dropped 0, overlimits 0 requeues 752)
backlog 0b 0p requeues 752
maxpacket 13698 drop_overlimit 0 new_flow_count 692 ecn_mark 0
new_flows_len 0 old_flows_len 0
qdisc noqueue 0: dev lan1 root refcnt 2
Sent 0 bytes 0 pkt (dropped 0, overlimits 0 requeues 0)
backlog 0b 0p requeues 0
qdisc noqueue 0: dev lan2 root refcnt 2
Sent 0 bytes 0 pkt (dropped 0, overlimits 0 requeues 0)
backlog 0b 0p requeues 0
qdisc noqueue 0: dev lan3 root refcnt 2
Sent 0 bytes 0 pkt (dropped 0, overlimits 0 requeues 0)
backlog 0b 0p requeues 0
qdisc noqueue 0: dev lan4 root refcnt 2
Sent 0 bytes 0 pkt (dropped 0, overlimits 0 requeues 0)
backlog 0b 0p requeues 0
qdisc noqueue 0: dev sqmbridge root refcnt 2
Sent 0 bytes 0 pkt (dropped 0, overlimits 0 requeues 0)
backlog 0b 0p requeues 0
qdisc noqueue 0: dev sqmbridge.33 root refcnt 2
Sent 0 bytes 0 pkt (dropped 0, overlimits 0 requeues 0)
backlog 0b 0p requeues 0
qdisc noqueue 0: dev sqmbridge.1 root refcnt 2
Sent 0 bytes 0 pkt (dropped 0, overlimits 0 requeues 0)
backlog 0b 0p requeues 0
qdisc noqueue 0: dev sqmbridge.10 root refcnt 2
Sent 0 bytes 0 pkt (dropped 0, overlimits 0 requeues 0)
backlog 0b 0p requeues 0
qdisc noqueue 0: dev wlan0 root refcnt 2
Sent 0 bytes 0 pkt (dropped 0, overlimits 0 requeues 0)
backlog 0b 0p requeues 0
qdisc mq 0: dev wlan1 root
Sent 51214056 bytes 448459 pkt (dropped 0, overlimits 0 requeues 0)
backlog 0b 0p requeues 0
qdisc fq_codel 0: dev wlan1 parent :4 limit 10240p flows 1024 quantum 1514 target 5ms interval 100ms memory_limit 4Mb ecn drop_batch 64
Sent 108 bytes 2 pkt (dropped 0, overlimits 0 requeues 0)
backlog 0b 0p requeues 0
maxpacket 0 drop_overlimit 0 new_flow_count 0 ecn_mark 0
new_flows_len 0 old_flows_len 0
qdisc fq_codel 0: dev wlan1 parent :3 limit 10240p flows 1024 quantum 1514 target 5ms interval 100ms memory_limit 4Mb ecn drop_batch 64
Sent 0 bytes 0 pkt (dropped 0, overlimits 0 requeues 0)
backlog 0b 0p requeues 0
maxpacket 0 drop_overlimit 0 new_flow_count 0 ecn_mark 0
new_flows_len 0 old_flows_len 0
qdisc fq_codel 0: dev wlan1 parent :2 limit 10240p flows 1024 quantum 1514 target 5ms interval 100ms memory_limit 4Mb ecn drop_batch 64
Sent 51213948 bytes 448457 pkt (dropped 0, overlimits 0 requeues 0)
backlog 0b 0p requeues 0
maxpacket 0 drop_overlimit 0 new_flow_count 0 ecn_mark 0
new_flows_len 0 old_flows_len 0
qdisc fq_codel 0: dev wlan1 parent :1 limit 10240p flows 1024 quantum 1514 target 5ms interval 100ms memory_limit 4Mb ecn drop_batch 64
Sent 0 bytes 0 pkt (dropped 0, overlimits 0 requeues 0)
backlog 0b 0p requeues 0
maxpacket 0 drop_overlimit 0 new_flow_count 0 ecn_mark 0
new_flows_len 0 old_flows_len 0
qdisc mq 0: dev wlan1-1 root
Sent 24237845 bytes 61895 pkt (dropped 0, overlimits 0 requeues 0)
backlog 0b 0p requeues 0
qdisc fq_codel 0: dev wlan1-1 parent :4 limit 10240p flows 1024 quantum 1514 target 5ms interval 100ms memory_limit 4Mb ecn drop_batch 64
Sent 552147 bytes 9812 pkt (dropped 0, overlimits 0 requeues 0)
backlog 0b 0p requeues 0
maxpacket 0 drop_overlimit 0 new_flow_count 0 ecn_mark 0
new_flows_len 0 old_flows_len 0
qdisc fq_codel 0: dev wlan1-1 parent :3 limit 10240p flows 1024 quantum 1514 target 5ms interval 100ms memory_limit 4Mb ecn drop_batch 64
Sent 0 bytes 0 pkt (dropped 0, overlimits 0 requeues 0)
backlog 0b 0p requeues 0
maxpacket 0 drop_overlimit 0 new_flow_count 0 ecn_mark 0
new_flows_len 0 old_flows_len 0
qdisc fq_codel 0: dev wlan1-1 parent :2 limit 10240p flows 1024 quantum 1514 target 5ms interval 100ms memory_limit 4Mb ecn drop_batch 64
Sent 23685698 bytes 52083 pkt (dropped 0, overlimits 0 requeues 0)
backlog 0b 0p requeues 0
maxpacket 0 drop_overlimit 0 new_flow_count 0 ecn_mark 0
new_flows_len 0 old_flows_len 0
qdisc fq_codel 0: dev wlan1-1 parent :1 limit 10240p flows 1024 quantum 1514 target 5ms interval 100ms memory_limit 4Mb ecn drop_batch 64
Sent 0 bytes 0 pkt (dropped 0, overlimits 0 requeues 0)
backlog 0b 0p requeues 0
maxpacket 0 drop_overlimit 0 new_flow_count 0 ecn_mark 0
new_flows_len 0 old_flows_len 0
qdisc cake 800a: dev ifb4eth0 root refcnt 2 bandwidth 250Mbit besteffort triple-isolate nonat wash no-ack-filter split-gso rtt 100ms raw overhead 0
Sent 867022025 bytes 732555 pkt (dropped 2257, overlimits 1124537 requeues 0)
backlog 0b 0p requeues 0
memory used: 2635Kb of 12500000b
capacity estimate: 250Mbit
min/max network layer size: 60 / 1514
min/max overhead-adjusted size: 60 / 1514
average network hdr offset: 14
Tin 0
thresh 250Mbit
target 5ms
interval 100ms
pk_delay 96us
av_delay 10us
sp_delay 4us
backlog 0b
pkts 734812
bytes 870257291
way_inds 40
way_miss 921
way_cols 0
drops 2257
marks 0
ack_drop 0
sp_flows 2
bk_flows 1
un_flows 0
max_len 3486
quantum 1514
This was worse a few days ago when I last tested with upload latency up to 0.5s
with sqm: