Just to add to this, because even with this post and the directions for using TFTP to upload firmware (https://openwrt.org/docs/guide-user/installation/generic.flashing.tftp)are so general that they are cluttered with extraneous information that perhaps is interesting, but not helpful in specific cases, I thought I'd post the solution I found, after several hours, which, admittedly is not too much different than the solution referenced in this post, but however does omit extraneous details.
It'd be great to be able to add this to the page for the router I was using (that is almost identical to the Archer C7) https://openwrt.org/toh/tp-link/archer_a7_v5.
Anyways, the clearest and most straight forward directions were actually here (https://wiki.dd-wrt.com/wiki/index.php/TP_Link_Archer_A7v5). Two key differences were to use Tftp32, not Tfpd64, and to use an older version of TP-Link firmware.
Directions are pasted below in case the dd-wrt link changes:
: This is still a work in progress in terms of clarity. The files below ARE ONLY FOR THE A7v5.
Download this recovery firmware file (DO NOT CHANGE THIS FILENAME)
THE FOLLOWING SHOULD BE UNIVERSAL FOR ALL TP-LINK ROUTERS: NIC must be statically set to 192.168.0.66 and subnet 255.255.255.0 (no other settings in win7/win10 necessary) Router/host/A7v5 will be sitting at 192.168.0.86 port 69 (The router will do this by itself).
Run TFTP SERVER (NOT CLIENT MODE) locally on the 192.168.0.66 PC NIC or Laptop NIC (NOT WIFI) using Tftp32 (it appears that tftpd64 has issues) Make sure to allow your TFTP program in the firewall rules for both private and public networks or you'll never push the file to the router due to the firewall blocking your TFTP program!
Make sure the tftp SERVER program has the right folder/directory chosen; which also has the recovery firmware file saved in that folder ahead of time before you start the process below. It's ok to have the tftp server program running and waiting for you to do the next steps.
Power off the router. Push in, and hold the reset button, power back on the router, while still holding in the reset button. If all goes as planned you will see a progress bar flash pretty quickly as the recovery bin file is pushed to the router. This happens within 6-8 seconds of powering back on the router with the reset button held in. If you have the TFTP server running the right way, the file should be pushed to the router right when the WPS led on the right side lights up (or actually a few seconds before). You can let go of the reset button when you see the progress bar on your TFTP server program move or once the WPS light turns on the router. The power LED will start blinking once it starts copying and upgrading back to stock. Sit back and wait 3-5 minutes as the router does its thing and Viola, you should be back on an early April 2019 stock build. You'll know you're back on stock build when the two Wi-Fi lights turn solid green. At that point you can go and reset your NIC card to obtain the ip automatically and resume restoring your settings in the stock TP-Link firmware.
The above revert file link will allow you to go back to dd-wrt if you want in the future. I don't know if future builds from TP-Link will lock out upgrading to dd-wrt, and/or, the possibility to not roll back to an older stock build. So be very careful in updating to new stock tp-link builds.