Wireshark is a terrible idea if you have never used it before, The learning curve is steep and time consuming but feel free to try if you really want.
I use wrtbwmon and I think you will agree it looks a lot like what you want
This is the usage page
A small configuration page
This page will allow you to give friendly names to unknown hosts using their mac address.
There are a few tutorials on how to install wrtbwmon but they are old and the version in all have the old package download locations and the end result looks not as nice as the newer version's. -- wrtbwmon is not in OpenWrt's opkg packages list so you will have to download and install it yourself from Github.
I took some notes when I installed wrtbwmon and posted it on old website just so I would remember how I did it.
Here is a TLDR of the main points.
Github location of the dev's.
https://github.com/pyrovski/wrtbwmon/releases/tag/0.37_ipv6 # main pacage
https://github.com/Kiougar/luci-wrtbwmon/releases # needed for displaying in luci
Start by SSH'ing into OpenWrt and download the needed packages, I use curl to download them so first you must install curl if you don't have it already.
opkg update && opkg install curl
now get the packages one line at a time.
curl -k -LO https://github.com/pyrovski/wrtbwmon/releases/download/0.37_ipv6/wrtbwmon_0.37_ipv6_all.ipk
curl -k -LO https://github.com/Kiougar/luci-wrtbwmon/releases/download/v0.8.3/luci-wrtbwmon_v0.8.3_all.ipk
Now install them one line at a time.
opkg install wrtbwmon_0.37_ipv6_all.ipk
opkg install luci-wrtbwmon_v0.8.3_all.ipk
Now you have to make it persist and run at boot.
/etc/init.d/wrtbwmon enable
/etc/init.d/wrtbwmon start
I had to restart.
reboot
Now log onto OpenWrt with your web browser and go to
Network >> Usage >> Configuration
And cheek the box labelled " Persist database "
Now click on the Usage Tab and your list should start populating with data, It may take a while for some devices to populate the list depending on if their actively using the internet.
Shameless plug for my site with the notes on wrtbwmon and more pictures of the SSH output during the commands used.