I have both devices and the AX3600 is currently stored away, mostly because I wasn't able to get it running stable as my main AP/VPN gateway (Xiaomi AX3600 / IPQ8071A ethernet "crashes" sporadically - #7 by NerdyProjects), but so far it seems to me nobody else was able to recreate the issue and I also was not able to reproduce it on my desk, so I don't know what was going on, anyway this was a show stopper for me.
While it was running, I did not have any problems recently with performance or RAM or Wifi (disconnects etc.), but it also wasn't heavily loaded - and ethernet crashed about once per day.
Still, the AX3600 does not have a hardware switch and without the non-standard offloading stuff, running 1 Gbit via the switch loads the main CPU quite a lot! I did not try using unofficial offloading stuff.
The WAX206 is a little bit, but not much, worse regarding Wifi performance/range. It has proven stable so far. I just ordered a second WAX206 for my father to replace his outdated WDR3600 as dumb AP
In comparison, I trust a "legacy" design like the WAX206 more than a non-vendor-supported specialised, theoretically advanced, platform as the QCA/AX3600 stuff. Having the network processors is great - not having well tested, stable drivers and open source firmware for everything is... a pain in the ass.
I really miss a USB port to have it as a "general-purpose-lay-around-and-grab-for-whatever" access point, that the good old archer C5 has been for me so far. For everything else it is a great upgrade!
Edit: Also, VPN performance on WAX206 is quite good. I don't have exact numbers, but from my power consumption measurements (https://openwrt.org/toh/netgear/wax206#power_consumption), about 150 Mbit/s OpenVPN (or 2-3x that via Wireguard) should be achievable.
Edit 2: For sure you will not be able to reach "Close to 1 Gbit/s" wifi performance through 2 walls. With 160 MHz, depending on the walls, expect 400-600 MBit/s. In the same room, you will reach 1 Gbit/s, yes.