and here is the tcpdump from eth0 ( wan ), and it seems to get out
17:03:48.421951 IP6 2a0d:xxxx:xxxx:xxad:xxxx:xxxx:xxxx:xxxx.52530 > 2a00:1450:4009:81d::200e.443: Flags [S], seq 3404923316, win 65535, options [mss 1220,sackOK,TS val 3540499890 ecr 0,nop,wscale 9], length 0
17:03:48.422025 IP6 2a0d:xxxx:xxxx:xxad:xxxx:xxxx:xxxx:xxxx.52534 > 2a00:1450:4009:81d::200e.443: Flags [S], seq 1764043911, win 65535, options [mss 1220,sackOK,TS val 3540499890 ecr 0,nop,wscale 9], length 0
17:03:48.469390 IP6 2a00:1450:4009:81d::200e.443 > 2a0d:xxxx:xxxx:xxxx:xxxx:xxxx:xxxx:xxxx.52534: Flags [S.], seq 3129180539, ack 1764043912, win 65535, options [mss 1440,sackOK,TS val 2436081721 ecr 3540492655,nop,wscale 8], length 0
17:03:48.469526 IP6 2a00:1450:4009:81d::200e.443 > 2a0d:xxxx:xxxx:xxxx:xxxx:xxxx:xxxx:xxxx..52534: Flags [S.], seq 3129180539, ack 1764043912, win 65535, options [mss 1440,sackOK,TS val 2436081721 ecr 3540492655,nop,wscale 8], length 0
17:03:48.469576 IP6 2a00:1450:4009:81d::200e.443 > 2a0d:xxxx:xxxx:xxxx:xxxx:xxxx:xxxx:xxxx..52530: Flags [S.], seq 2085435908, ack 3404923317, win 65535, options [mss 1440,sackOK,TS val 681670550 ecr 3540492614,nop,wscale 8], length 0
17:03:48.469634 IP6 2a00:1450:4009:81d::200e.443 > 2a0d:xxxx:xxxx:xxxx:xxxx:xxxx:xxxx:xxxx..52530: Flags [S.], seq 2085435908, ack 3404923317, win 65535, options [mss 1440,sackOK,TS val 681670550 ecr 3540492614,nop,wscale 8], length 0