WiFi Calling and response to UDP traffic

Actually, they're either. But not really what we're here to discuss.
See: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_TCP_and_UDP_port_numbers

So I read this, and installed the package, but it appears that to get this working I would need to know my ISP's AFTR... Which I don't... Do you know any way to find this? Also, willing to try it (I'll try almost anything at this point) but I don't think this is going to solve my problem.

I would try to sniff DHCPv6 packets and see if AFTR is there.
See also RFC 6334 - DHCPv6 AFTR Discovery - automatic address resolution in DS-Lite (Ipv6)