I can recommend ASUS TUF- AX6000.
It's a blazing fast and inexpensive router with WiFi 6 and 2 x 2.5Gbps + 4 x 1Gbps.
One of very few wifi ARM routers that can do gigabit SQM.
In fact, it's been confirmed that it can do 2Gbps WAN SQM with software offloading and <50% CPU load, as you can see in the video here: