Oh, you're the guy from that thread! Thanks for answering!
I have two more questions if you won't mind
One is about ECN, as I understood ECN works by telling the sender to slow down when the receiver is reaching capacity, (which is a good thing?) In this setup, as I can see there is no ECN enabled, so nobody is telling the sender to slow down and is instead dropping packets? (is this a bad thing?)
The other question is, at home I have a similar setup, with a physical two nic quad core 4gb ram pc (no wifi) doing pppoe and with sqm enabled on the pppoe-wan interface (not the physical wan, there was like another virtual wan-pppoe to choose there), internet is vdsl at 40/20mbps

In this case, would it make sense to do the same, enable sqm on wan at ingress 0, egress 40000, lan at ingress 0, egress 20000 instead of having sqm at the pppoe interface?
Anyway, here is the output of tc -s qdisc
qdisc noqueue 0: dev lo root refcnt 2
Sent 0 bytes 0 pkt (dropped 0, overlimits 0 requeues 0)
backlog 0b 0p requeues 0
qdisc cake 8065: dev eth0 root refcnt 65 bandwidth 100Mbit diffserv3 triple-isolate nonat nowash no-ack-filter split-gso rtt 100.0ms raw overhead 0
Sent 596872950 bytes 2438681 pkt (dropped 1228, overlimits 878682 requeues 0)
backlog 0b 0p requeues 0
memory used: 676928b of 5000000b
capacity estimate: 100Mbit
min/max network layer size: 42 / 1514
min/max overhead-adjusted size: 42 / 1514
average network hdr offset: 14
Bulk Best Effort Voice
thresh 6250Kbit 100Mbit 25Mbit
target 5.0ms 5.0ms 5.0ms
interval 100.0ms 100.0ms 100.0ms
pk_delay 0us 75us 10us
av_delay 0us 8us 5us
sp_delay 0us 1us 2us
backlog 0b 0b 0b
pkts 0 2260802 179107
bytes 0 589253260 9400956
way_inds 0 52075 0
way_miss 0 148569 1
way_cols 0 0 0
drops 0 1228 0
marks 0 0 0
ack_drop 0 0 0
sp_flows 0 2 0
bk_flows 0 1 0
un_flows 0 0 0
max_len 0 1514 60
quantum 300 1514 762
qdisc cake 8068: dev eth1 root refcnt 65 bandwidth 100Mbit diffserv3 triple-isolate nonat nowash no-ack-filter split-gso rtt 100.0ms raw overhead 0
Sent 4165203563 bytes 3160207 pkt (dropped 2509, overlimits 7714505 requeues 0)
backlog 0b 0p requeues 0
memory used: 1871232b of 5000000b
capacity estimate: 100Mbit
min/max network layer size: 42 / 1514
min/max overhead-adjusted size: 42 / 1514
average network hdr offset: 14
Bulk Best Effort Voice
thresh 6250Kbit 100Mbit 25Mbit
target 5.0ms 5.0ms 5.0ms
interval 100.0ms 100.0ms 100.0ms
pk_delay 0us 224us 10us
av_delay 0us 18us 3us
sp_delay 0us 3us 2us
backlog 0b 0b 0b
pkts 0 3162378 338
bytes 0 4168837443 14196
way_inds 0 20482 0
way_miss 0 7703 1
way_cols 0 0 0
drops 0 2509 0
marks 0 839 0
ack_drop 0 0 0
sp_flows 0 0 1
bk_flows 0 1 0
un_flows 0 0 0
max_len 0 1514 42
quantum 300 1514 762
qdisc mq 0: dev eth2 root
Sent 51959424 bytes 114839 pkt (dropped 0, overlimits 0 requeues 0)
backlog 0b 0p requeues 0
qdisc fq_codel 0: dev eth2 parent :8 limit 10240p flows 1024 quantum 1514 target 5.0ms interval 100.0ms memory_limit 32Mb ecn
Sent 22979872 bytes 36413 pkt (dropped 0, overlimits 0 requeues 0)
backlog 0b 0p requeues 0
maxpacket 54 drop_overlimit 0 new_flow_count 1 ecn_mark 0
new_flows_len 1 old_flows_len 0
qdisc fq_codel 0: dev eth2 parent :7 limit 10240p flows 1024 quantum 1514 target 5.0ms interval 100.0ms memory_limit 32Mb ecn
Sent 2809835 bytes 9087 pkt (dropped 0, overlimits 0 requeues 0)
backlog 0b 0p requeues 0
maxpacket 485 drop_overlimit 0 new_flow_count 1 ecn_mark 0
new_flows_len 1 old_flows_len 0
qdisc fq_codel 0: dev eth2 parent :6 limit 10240p flows 1024 quantum 1514 target 5.0ms interval 100.0ms memory_limit 32Mb ecn
Sent 14075643 bytes 23293 pkt (dropped 0, overlimits 0 requeues 0)
backlog 0b 0p requeues 0
maxpacket 0 drop_overlimit 0 new_flow_count 0 ecn_mark 0
new_flows_len 0 old_flows_len 0
qdisc fq_codel 0: dev eth2 parent :5 limit 10240p flows 1024 quantum 1514 target 5.0ms interval 100.0ms memory_limit 32Mb ecn
Sent 1416487 bytes 7790 pkt (dropped 0, overlimits 0 requeues 0)
backlog 0b 0p requeues 0
maxpacket 0 drop_overlimit 0 new_flow_count 0 ecn_mark 0
new_flows_len 0 old_flows_len 0
qdisc fq_codel 0: dev eth2 parent :4 limit 10240p flows 1024 quantum 1514 target 5.0ms interval 100.0ms memory_limit 32Mb ecn
Sent 1267604 bytes 7051 pkt (dropped 0, overlimits 0 requeues 0)
backlog 0b 0p requeues 0
maxpacket 54 drop_overlimit 0 new_flow_count 3 ecn_mark 0
new_flows_len 1 old_flows_len 0
qdisc fq_codel 0: dev eth2 parent :3 limit 10240p flows 1024 quantum 1514 target 5.0ms interval 100.0ms memory_limit 32Mb ecn
Sent 1366920 bytes 7216 pkt (dropped 0, overlimits 0 requeues 0)
backlog 0b 0p requeues 0
maxpacket 0 drop_overlimit 0 new_flow_count 0 ecn_mark 0
new_flows_len 0 old_flows_len 0
qdisc fq_codel 0: dev eth2 parent :2 limit 10240p flows 1024 quantum 1514 target 5.0ms interval 100.0ms memory_limit 32Mb ecn
Sent 3196392 bytes 9975 pkt (dropped 0, overlimits 0 requeues 0)
backlog 0b 0p requeues 0
maxpacket 0 drop_overlimit 0 new_flow_count 0 ecn_mark 0
new_flows_len 0 old_flows_len 0
qdisc fq_codel 0: dev eth2 parent :1 limit 10240p flows 1024 quantum 1514 target 5.0ms interval 100.0ms memory_limit 32Mb ecn
Sent 4846671 bytes 14014 pkt (dropped 0, overlimits 0 requeues 0)
backlog 0b 0p requeues 0
maxpacket 66 drop_overlimit 0 new_flow_count 7 ecn_mark 0
new_flows_len 1 old_flows_len 0
qdisc noqueue 0: dev br-BRIDGE root refcnt 2
Sent 0 bytes 0 pkt (dropped 0, overlimits 0 requeues 0)
backlog 0b 0p requeues 0
the output of cat /etc/config/sqm
config queue
option debug_logging '0'
option verbosity '5'
option linklayer 'none'
option interface 'eth0'
option qdisc 'cake'
option script 'layer_cake.qos'
option qdisc_advanced '1'
option squash_dscp '0'
option ingress_ecn 'ECN'
option egress_ecn 'NOECN'
option qdisc_really_really_advanced '0'
option squash_ingress '0'
option download '0'
option enabled '1'
option upload '100000'
config queue
option debug_logging '0'
option verbosity '5'
option ingress_ecn 'ECN'
option egress_ecn 'NOECN'
option linklayer 'none'
option interface 'eth1'
option qdisc 'cake'
option script 'layer_cake.qos'
option qdisc_advanced '1'
option squash_dscp '0'
option squash_ingress '0'
option qdisc_really_really_advanced '0'
option enabled '1'
option download '0'
option upload '100000'
And the output of echo 'Thank you moeller0!'
Thank you moeller0!