Thanks everyone for the input. Much appreciated. I am running the tests below with ethernet hooked up directly to my laptop and all other devices are disconnected from the router.
At this point I can't get A+ on all three things (quality,bufferbloat and speed). Here is a few things I tried:
SQM disabled:
fq_codel/simple.qos/none:
cake/piece_of_cake.qos/none:
cake/piece_of_cake.qos/8:
cake/piece_of_cake.qos/12:
cake/piece_of_cake.qos/26:
While running on fq_codel/simple, output of tc -s qdisc: https://pastebin.com/V95F4U70
Also while running on fq_codel/simple ouput of tc -d qdisc: https://pastebin.com/TYyNQ5Su
The ingress/egress limit for all of these tests is common: 69000/17400
Thank you so much for the input guys!