i tried ack filtering but it clearly felt better without it so this is my final config:

config defaults
        list defaults /etc/qosify/*.conf

config class voice
        option ingress EF
        option egress EF

config interface wan
        option name wan
        option disabled 0
        option bandwidth_up 42mbit
        option bandwidth_down 850mbit
        option overhead_type none
        # defaults:
        option ingress 1
        option egress 1
        option mode diffserv4
        option nat 1
        option host_isolate 1
        option autorate_ingress 0
        option ingress_options "overhead 22 mpu 64"
        option egress_options "overhead 22 mpu 64"
        option options ""

# Games
udp:27000-27031         voice
udp:27036               voice
udp:3074                voice
udp:3478                voice
udp:4379                voice
udp:4380                voice