If the objective is to allow remote Tailscale clients to access the Internet via your Exit Node, then you don't need to configure the "Force LAN traffic to route through Exit Node", as the standard Exit Node configuration does that. The "Force LAN traffic to ..." does something entirely different.
Given you are trying to install Tailscale for the first time, I would use Tailscale v1.80.2 which is offered by the Package Manager, save the fancy stuff for later.
Alright. I have reinstalled the package and re-done the setup all the way to the "Force LAN traffic to route through Exit Node" (not including it).
The objective is to allow access to the internet via the Exit Node, but also to allow access to my LAN services running behind the Exit Node. Which is what the "allow-lan-access" option is for, I assume. That's where I get the errors mentioned in the post.
No the "allow-lan-access" option is not used, you need to say in the "How to set up Subnet Router/Exit Node" Section.
Assuming the Subnet of your LAN is 192.168.1.0/24, run the following CLI command.
tailscale up --accept-routes --advertise-routes=192.168.1.0/24 --advertise-exit-node
Then go to the Tailscale Coordination Server and enable both the Subnet Route and the Exit Node for the rt-ax1800u.