Alrighty, really big thank you and dlakelan for helping out, I have one more question tho - would changing stuff like checksum offloads etc. on my network adapter would help anything a little? Because it seems like my connection has problems when it comes to sending bigger packets and it probably fragments em very often during gaming, that's why my ping fluctuates horribly probably.
Here's the test I made just now with those 2 SQM instances:
seems pretty good overally for this connection, but If I can somehow combat that bufferbloat a little more, it would be great.