so I tried comparing tcpdump of webserver of when it's working with LAN vs when it's coming from WAN. I must say I have not fully understood, but adding it here for some expert eyes:
webserver tcpdump when it WORKS withing lan network
7:28:28.727011 notsure-what-mac > webserver-mac, ethertype IPv4 (0x0800), length 74: (tos 0x0, ttl 64, id 57681, offset 0, flags [DF], proto TCP (6), length 60)
10.20.30.1.57488 > 10.20.30.177.7000: Flags [S], cksum 0x4c8a (correct), seq 217028529, win 29200, options [mss 1460,sackOK,TS val 901538374 ecr 0,nop,wscale 7], length 0
07:28:28.727123 webserver-mac > notsure-what-mac, ethertype IPv4 (0x0800), length 74: (tos 0x0, ttl 64, id 0, offset 0, flags [DF], proto TCP (6), length 60)
10.20.30.177.7000 > 10.20.30.1.57488: Flags [S.], cksum 0x5108 (incorrect -> 0xfb1d), seq 1846274689, ack 217028530, win 65160, options [mss 1460,sackOK,TS val 1488786328 ecr 901538374,nop,wscale 7], length 0
07:28:28.727900 notsure-what-mac > webserver-mac, ethertype IPv4 (0x0800), length 66: (tos 0x0, ttl 64, id 57682, offset 0, flags [DF], proto TCP (6), length 52)
10.20.30.1.57488 > 10.20.30.177.7000: Flags [.], cksum 0x278d (correct), ack 1, win 229, options [nop,nop,TS val 901538375 ecr 1488786328], length 0
07:28:28.728002 notsure-what-mac > webserver-mac, ethertype IPv4 (0x0800), length 147: (tos 0x0, ttl 64, id 57683, offset 0, flags [DF], proto TCP (6), length 133)
10.20.30.1.57488 > 10.20.30.177.7000: Flags [P.], cksum 0x2fb9 (correct), seq 1:82, ack 1, win 229, options [nop,nop,TS val 901538375 ecr 1488786328], length 81
07:28:28.728055 webserver-mac > notsure-what-mac, ethertype IPv4 (0x0800), length 66: (tos 0x0, ttl 64, id 16452, offset 0, flags [DF], proto TCP (6), length 52)
10.20.30.177.7000 > 10.20.30.1.57488: Flags [.], cksum 0x5100 (incorrect -> 0x2623), ack 82, win 509, options [nop,nop,TS val 1488786329 ecr 901538375], length 0
07:28:28.732851 webserver-mac > notsure-what-mac, ethertype IPv4 (0x0800), length 2427: (tos 0x0, ttl 64, id 16453, offset 0, flags [DF], proto TCP (6), length 2413)
10.20.30.177.7000 > 10.20.30.1.57488: Flags [P.], cksum 0x5a39 (incorrect -> 0x9999), seq 1:2362, ack 82, win 509, options [nop,nop,TS val 1488786334 ecr 901538375], length 2361
07:28:28.733151 webserver-mac > notsure-what-mac, ethertype IPv4 (0x0800), length 71: (tos 0x0, ttl 64, id 16455, offset 0, flags [DF], proto TCP (6), length 57)
10.20.30.177.7000 > 10.20.30.1.57488: Flags [P.], cksum 0x5105 (incorrect -> 0xd8bc), seq 2362:2367, ack 82, win 509, options [nop,nop,TS val 1488786335 ecr 901538375], length 5
07:28:28.733779 notsure-what-mac > webserver-mac, ethertype IPv4 (0x0800), length 66: (tos 0x0, ttl 64, id 57684, offset 0, flags [DF], proto TCP (6), length 52)
10.20.30.1.57488 > 10.20.30.177.7000: Flags [.], cksum 0x2172 (correct), ack 1449, win 251, options [nop,nop,TS val 901538381 ecr 1488786334], length 0
07:28:28.733823 notsure-what-mac > webserver-mac, ethertype IPv4 (0x0800), length 66: (tos 0x0, ttl 64, id 57685, offset 0, flags [DF], proto TCP (6), length 52)
10.20.30.1.57488 > 10.20.30.177.7000: Flags [.], cksum 0x1dca (correct), ack 2362, win 274, options [nop,nop,TS val 901538381 ecr 1488786334], length 0
07:28:28.733835 notsure-what-mac > webserver-mac, ethertype IPv4 (0x0800), length 66: (tos 0x0, ttl 64, id 57686, offset 0, flags [DF], proto TCP (6), length 52)
10.20.30.1.57488 > 10.20.30.177.7000: Flags [.], cksum 0x1dc4 (correct), ack 2367, win 274, options [nop,nop,TS val 901538381 ecr 1488786335], length 0
07:28:28.734897 notsure-what-mac > webserver-mac, ethertype IPv4 (0x0800), length 66: (tos 0x0, ttl 64, id 57687, offset 0, flags [DF], proto TCP (6), length 52)
10.20.30.1.57488 > 10.20.30.177.7000: Flags [F.], cksum 0x1dc2 (correct), seq 82, ack 2367, win 274, options [nop,nop,TS val 901538382 ecr 1488786335], length 0
07:28:28.736527 webserver-mac > notsure-what-mac, ethertype IPv4 (0x0800), length 66: (tos 0x0, ttl 64, id 16456, offset 0, flags [DF], proto TCP (6), length 52)
10.20.30.177.7000 > 10.20.30.1.57488: Flags [F.], cksum 0x5100 (incorrect -> 0x1cd3), seq 2367, ack 83, win 509, options [nop,nop,TS val 1488786338 ecr 901538382], length 0
07:28:28.736995 notsure-what-mac > webserver-mac, ethertype IPv4 (0x0800), length 66: (tos 0x0, ttl 64, id 57688, offset 0, flags [DF], proto TCP (6), length 52)
10.20.30.1.57488 > 10.20.30.177.7000: Flags [.], cksum 0x1dbc (correct), ack 2368, win 274, options [nop,nop,TS val 901538384 ecr 1488786338], length 0
webserver tcpdump when it DOESN'T WORKS from WAN after port forwarding
07:15:52.004787 notsure-what-mac > webserver-mac, ethertype IPv4 (0x0800), length 78: (tos 0x0, ttl 63, id 0, offset 0, flags [DF], proto TCP (6), length 64)
172.17.2.88.61765 > 10.20.30.177.7000: Flags [S], cksum 0xfee2 (correct), seq 309209358, win 65535, options [mss 1460,nop,wscale 6,nop,nop,TS val 489290663 ecr 0,sackOK,eol], length 0
07:15:53.007260 notsure-what-mac > webserver-mac, ethertype IPv4 (0x0800), length 78: (tos 0x0, ttl 63, id 0, offset 0, flags [DF], proto TCP (6), length 64)
172.17.2.88.61765 > 10.20.30.177.7000: Flags [S], cksum 0xfaf9 (correct), seq 309209358, win 65535, options [mss 1460,nop,wscale 6,nop,nop,TS val 489291664 ecr 0,sackOK,eol], length 0
07:15:54.006700 notsure-what-mac > webserver-mac, ethertype IPv4 (0x0800), length 78: (tos 0x0, ttl 63, id 0, offset 0, flags [DF], proto TCP (6), length 64)
172.17.2.88.61765 > 10.20.30.177.7000: Flags [S], cksum 0xf711 (correct), seq 309209358, win 65535, options [mss 1460,nop,wscale 6,nop,nop,TS val 489292664 ecr 0,sackOK,eol], length 0
07:15:55.009713 notsure-what-mac > webserver-mac, ethertype IPv4 (0x0800), length 78: (tos 0x0, ttl 63, id 0, offset 0, flags [DF], proto TCP (6), length 64)
172.17.2.88.61765 > 10.20.30.177.7000: Flags [S], cksum 0xf329 (correct), seq 309209358, win 65535, options [mss 1460,nop,wscale 6,nop,nop,TS val 489293664 ecr 0,sackOK,eol], length 0
07:15:56.011520 notsure-what-mac > webserver-mac, ethertype IPv4 (0x0800), length 78: (tos 0x0, ttl 63, id 0, offset 0, flags [DF], proto TCP (6), length 64)
172.17.2.88.61765 > 10.20.30.177.7000: Flags [S], cksum 0xef41 (correct), seq 309209358, win 65535, options [mss 1460,nop,wscale 6,nop,nop,TS val 489294664 ecr 0,sackOK,eol], length 0
07:15:57.011657 notsure-what-mac > webserver-mac, ethertype IPv4 (0x0800), length 78: (tos 0x0, ttl 63, id 0, offset 0, flags [DF], proto TCP (6), length 64)
172.17.2.88.61765 > 10.20.30.177.7000: Flags [S], cksum 0xeb59 (correct), seq 309209358, win 65535, options [mss 1460,nop,wscale 6,nop,nop,TS val 489295664 ecr 0,sackOK,eol], length 0
07:15:59.019717 notsure-what-mac > webserver-mac, ethertype IPv4 (0x0800), length 78: (tos 0x0, ttl 63, id 0, offset 0, flags [DF], proto TCP (6), length 64)
172.17.2.88.61765 > 10.20.30.177.7000: Flags [S], cksum 0xe389 (correct), seq 309209358, win 65535, options [mss 1460,nop,wscale 6,nop,nop,TS val 489297664 ecr 0,sackOK,eol], length 0
07:16:03.019508 notsure-what-mac > webserver-mac, ethertype IPv4 (0x0800), length 78: (tos 0x0, ttl 63, id 0, offset 0, flags [DF], proto TCP (6), length 64)
172.17.2.88.61765 > 10.20.30.177.7000: Flags [S], cksum 0xd3e8 (correct), seq 309209358, win 65535, options [mss 1460,nop,wscale 6,nop,nop,TS val 489301665 ecr 0,sackOK,eol], length 0
07:16:11.026222 notsure-what-mac > webserver-mac, ethertype IPv4 (0x0800), length 78: (tos 0x0, ttl 63, id 0, offset 0, flags [DF], proto TCP (6), length 64)
172.17.2.88.61765 > 10.20.30.177.7000: Flags [S], cksum 0xb4a7 (correct), seq 309209358, win 65535, options [mss 1460,nop,wscale 6,nop,nop,TS val 489309666 ecr 0,sackOK,eol], length 0