OK here is the output on tcpdump from the router. The dumpAP I can't install tcpdump for the moment, because okpg update (and thus opkg install) do not work (yet).
wlaneg is the dumbAP
router is the router to the internet.
19:46:34.236824 IP wlaneg.soundzentrum.de.54810 > router.soundzentrum.de.53: 58120+ A? downloads.openwrt.org. (39)
19:46:34.236866 IP router.soundzentrum.de > wlaneg.soundzentrum.de: ICMP router.soundzentrum.de udp port 53 unreachable, length 75
19:46:34.236873 IP wlaneg.soundzentrum.de.54810 > router.soundzentrum.de.53: 59584+ AAAA? downloads.openwrt.org. (39)
19:46:34.236891 IP router.soundzentrum.de > wlaneg.soundzentrum.de: ICMP router.soundzentrum.de udp port 53 unreachable, length 75
19:46:34.238245 IP wlaneg.soundzentrum.de.38290 > mirror-02.infra.openwrt.org.80: Flags [S], seq 520465434, win 29200, options [mss 1460,sackOK,TS val 4113170141 ecr 0,nop,wscale 6], leng
th 0
19:46:34.238270 IP mirror-02.infra.openwrt.org.80 > wlaneg.soundzentrum.de.38290: Flags [R.], seq 0, ack 520465435, win 0, length 0
19:46:34.240891 IP wlaneg.soundzentrum.de.44727 > router.soundzentrum.de.53: 39484+ A? downloads.openwrt.org. (39)
19:46:34.240915 IP router.soundzentrum.de > wlaneg.soundzentrum.de: ICMP router.soundzentrum.de udp port 53 unreachable, length 75
19:46:34.240920 IP wlaneg.soundzentrum.de.44727 > router.soundzentrum.de.53: 40835+ AAAA? downloads.openwrt.org. (39)
19:46:34.240936 IP router.soundzentrum.de > wlaneg.soundzentrum.de: ICMP router.soundzentrum.de udp port 53 unreachable, length 75
19:46:34.242074 IP wlaneg.soundzentrum.de.38292 > mirror-02.infra.openwrt.org.80: Flags [S], seq 1258106219, win 29200, options [mss 1460,sackOK,TS val 4113170144 ecr 0,nop,wscale 6], len
gth 0
19:46:34.242096 IP mirror-02.infra.openwrt.org.80 > wlaneg.soundzentrum.de.38292: Flags [R.], seq 0, ack 1258106220, win 0, length 0
19:46:34.244593 IP wlaneg.soundzentrum.de.41993 > router.soundzentrum.de.53: 5816+ A? downloads.openwrt.org. (39)
19:46:34.244617 IP router.soundzentrum.de > wlaneg.soundzentrum.de: ICMP router.soundzentrum.de udp port 53 unreachable, length 75
19:46:34.244622 IP wlaneg.soundzentrum.de.41993 > router.soundzentrum.de.53: 7148+ AAAA? downloads.openwrt.org. (39)
19:46:34.244638 IP router.soundzentrum.de > wlaneg.soundzentrum.de: ICMP router.soundzentrum.de udp port 53 unreachable, length 75
19:46:34.245750 IP wlaneg.soundzentrum.de.38294 > mirror-02.infra.openwrt.org.80: Flags [S], seq 4273497272, win 29200, options [mss 1460,sackOK,TS val 4113170148 ecr 0,nop,wscale 6], len
gth 0
19:46:34.245772 IP mirror-02.infra.openwrt.org.80 > wlaneg.soundzentrum.de.38294: Flags [R.], seq 0, ack 4273497273, win 0, length 0
19:46:34.248214 IP wlaneg.soundzentrum.de.47342 > router.soundzentrum.de.53: 25514+ A? downloads.openwrt.org. (39)
19:46:34.248231 IP wlaneg.soundzentrum.de.47342 > router.soundzentrum.de.53: 26801+ AAAA? downloads.openwrt.org. (39)
19:46:34.249361 IP wlaneg.soundzentrum.de.38296 > mirror-02.infra.openwrt.org.80: Flags [S], seq 4173633300, win 29200, options [mss 1460,sackOK,TS val 4113170152 ecr 0,nop,wscale 6], len
gth 0
19:46:34.249383 IP mirror-02.infra.openwrt.org.80 > wlaneg.soundzentrum.de.38296: Flags [R.], seq 0, ack 4173633301, win 0, length 0
19:46:34.251819 IP wlaneg.soundzentrum.de.50292 > router.soundzentrum.de.53: 27278+ A? downloads.openwrt.org. (39)
19:46:34.251835 IP wlaneg.soundzentrum.de.50292 > router.soundzentrum.de.53: 28770+ AAAA? downloads.openwrt.org. (39)
19:46:34.252963 IP wlaneg.soundzentrum.de.38298 > mirror-02.infra.openwrt.org.80: Flags [S], seq 1655510800, win 29200, options [mss 1460,sackOK,TS val 4113170155 ecr 0,nop,wscale 6], len
gth 0
19:46:34.252985 IP mirror-02.infra.openwrt.org.80 > wlaneg.soundzentrum.de.38298: Flags [R.], seq 0, ack 1655510801, win 0, length 0
19:46:34.255426 IP wlaneg.soundzentrum.de.54799 > router.soundzentrum.de.53: 27844+ A? downloads.openwrt.org. (39)
19:46:34.255443 IP wlaneg.soundzentrum.de.54799 > router.soundzentrum.de.53: 29231+ AAAA? downloads.openwrt.org. (39)
19:46:34.256594 IP wlaneg.soundzentrum.de.38300 > mirror-02.infra.openwrt.org.80: Flags [S], seq 3681370499, win 29200, options [mss 1460,sackOK,TS val 4113170159 ecr 0,nop,wscale 6], len
gth 0
19:46:34.256615 IP mirror-02.infra.openwrt.org.80 > wlaneg.soundzentrum.de.38300: Flags [R.], seq 0, ack 3681370500, win 0, length 0
19:46:34.259047 IP wlaneg.soundzentrum.de.40824 > router.soundzentrum.de.53: 44260+ A? downloads.openwrt.org. (39)
19:46:34.259063 IP wlaneg.soundzentrum.de.40824 > router.soundzentrum.de.53: 45583+ AAAA? downloads.openwrt.org. (39)
19:46:34.260188 IP wlaneg.soundzentrum.de.38302 > mirror-02.infra.openwrt.org.80: Flags [S], seq 54613284, win 29200, options [mss 1460,sackOK,TS val 4113170163 ecr 0,nop,wscale 6], lengt
h 0
19:46:34.260208 IP mirror-02.infra.openwrt.org.80 > wlaneg.soundzentrum.de.38302: Flags [R.], seq 0, ack 54613285, win 0, length 0