But while configuring it I accidentally deleted br-lan, which made me loose any form of access to the device. I then booted it into failsafe, where I can get an unidentified network on LAN port 1 but no ssh. The router has no reset button so I can't reset it.
What could be the cause, how can I fix this. I really would like to avoid having to use physical serial!
Likely, the WPS key is what will get you into failsafe mode... did you observe one of the LEDs blinking rapidly to indicate you were in failsafe mode?
This should work...
Make sure that you are connecting via ethernet directly between the FB and your computer, no intermediate equipment.
Also, be sure that wifi is disabled on your computer, and that there is only the single connection to the computer (as well as the FB).
Try pinging 192.168.1.1 and see if you get a response.
If everything else fails, you can always flash OpenWrt again, just as you did when coming from Fritz!OS (using the bootloader's (ADAM2) ftpd implementation). Really bricking this device is hard, so you will be able to recover this (easily).