What are the symptoms of your crash? Freeze? Reboot? something else?
Do you have another power adapter you can try (with the same or ideally higher current capacity)? Sometimes a failing or marginal adapter will cause the device to brown-out during high bandwidth periods.
So the problem is OpenWrt needs more power than stock FQ. That cuts down speed.
Using any packages cuts down speed.
QoSify/SQM even when stopped crashes router under load. Also I need to limit my speed.
Another thing to check is if the uptime on the device is getting reset. If it goes back to zero (and by the time you check is a pretty short time), that does indicate a crash + reboot, but if the uptime is not getting reset, the problem is not a full crash + reboot.