so its definitely my weird dns setup.
(which is like: dns requests are forwarded to the router port 53, where adblock uses dnsmasq as backend, which forwards all non-local addresses to port 5453 where stubby is waiting to us DOT to eventually resolve it) so not an adblock issue. seems like a local dns request is not forwarded correctly. I'll try to figure out whats wrong - and update it here. Thank you again for helping me so far and putting me on the right track!
Do I need both? ca-bundle and ca-certificates? I switched now to cloudflare temporarily - but I keep getting the same result. If i query stubby directly on port 5453 I am not getting any answer for that domain even if get a valid answer on port 53 .. but do get one for domains like www.google.org - or others I have certainly not used..
/edit: nslookup and dig show different results.. suns getting real low ..
root@charon:~# dig easylist-downloads.adblockplus.org @127.0.0.1 -p 5453
; <<>> DiG 9.16.3 <<>> easylist-downloads.adblockplus.org @127.0.0.1 -p 5453
;; global options: +cmd
;; Got answer:
;; ->>HEADER<<- opcode: QUERY, status: NOERROR, id: 60487
;; flags: qr rd ra; QUERY: 1, ANSWER: 12, AUTHORITY: 0, ADDITIONAL: 1
;; OPT PSEUDOSECTION:
; EDNS: version: 0, flags:; udp: 1232
;; QUESTION SECTION:
;easylist-downloads.adblockplus.org. IN A
;; ANSWER SECTION:
easylist-downloads.adblockplus.org. 23 IN A 136.243.154.20
easylist-downloads.adblockplus.org. 23 IN A 178.63.13.4
easylist-downloads.adblockplus.org. 23 IN A 178.63.70.146
easylist-downloads.adblockplus.org. 23 IN A 95.216.27.32
easylist-downloads.adblockplus.org. 23 IN A 144.76.116.39
easylist-downloads.adblockplus.org. 23 IN A 144.76.153.101
easylist-downloads.adblockplus.org. 23 IN A 136.243.22.80
easylist-downloads.adblockplus.org. 23 IN A 213.239.192.206
easylist-downloads.adblockplus.org. 23 IN A 195.201.59.236
easylist-downloads.adblockplus.org. 23 IN A 195.201.59.237
easylist-downloads.adblockplus.org. 23 IN A 178.63.50.140
easylist-downloads.adblockplus.org. 23 IN A 144.76.100.145
;; Query time: 9 msec
;; SERVER: 127.0.0.1#5453(127.0.0.1)
;; WHEN: Mon Aug 24 21:41:08 CEST 2020
;; MSG SIZE rcvd: 663
root@charon:~# nslookup -p 5453 easylist-downloads.adblockplus.org 127.0.0.1
Server: 127.0.0.1
Address: 127.0.0.1#5453
*** Can't find easylist-downloads.adblockplus.org: No answer
Name: easylist-downloads.adblockplus.org
Address 1: 2a01:4f8:140:30e7::2
Address 2: 2a01:4f8:120:724c::2
Address 3: 2a01:4f9:2a:1b61::2
Address 4: 2a01:4f8:13b:64e::2