See below and thanks for taking a look.

I'd be so happy if it were as simple as some setting and I could have a stable AP.

I run it in AP mode only (almost all services disabled), but I need 3 VLANs hence the different network values. 2 VLANs use eth0 and 1 uses eth1 if that makes a difference in terms of stability. Let me know if the switch/VLAN config is important and I can post that too.

config wifi-device 'radio0'
	option type 'mac80211'
	option channel '149'
	option hwmode '11a'
	option path 'soc/1b500000.pci/pci0000:00/0000:00:00.0/0000:01:00.0'
	option htmode 'VHT80'
	option country 'US'
	option legacy_rates '0'
	option noscan '1'

config wifi-iface 'default_radio0'
	option device 'radio0'
	option network 'lan'
	option mode 'ap'
	option ssid 'REDACTED'
	option encryption 'psk2+ccmp'
	option key 'REDACTED'
	option wps_pushbutton '0'
	option short_preamble '1'

config wifi-device 'radio1'
	option type 'mac80211'
	option hwmode '11g'
	option path 'soc/1b700000.pci/pci0001:00/0001:00:00.0/0001:01:00.0'
	option htmode 'HT20'
	option channel '6'
	option country 'US'
	option legacy_rates '0'
	option noscan '1'

config wifi-iface 'default_radio1'
	option device 'radio1'
	option network 'lan'
	option mode 'ap'
	option ssid 'REDACTED'
	option encryption 'psk2+ccmp'
	option key 'REDACTED'
	option wps_pushbutton '0'
	option short_preamble '1'

config wifi-iface
	option device 'radio1'
	option mode 'ap'
	option ssid 'REDACTED'
	option encryption 'psk2+ccmp'
	option key 'REDACTED'
	option wps_pushbutton '0'
	option isolate '1'
	option network 'guest'
	option disabled '0'
	option short_preamble '1'

config wifi-iface
	option device 'radio0'
	option mode 'ap'
	option ssid 'REDACTED'
	option encryption 'psk2+ccmp'
	option key 'REDACTED'
	option wps_pushbutton '0'
	option isolate '1'
	option short_preamble '1'
	option network 'work'