802.11r IPhone can not connect

Are you sure? Like for @ej_breaks_the_lan, it was your post that, for me, clued me into needing to specify an r0kh and r1kh!

And your follow-up post here:

If you're certain that simply enabling 802.11r with WPA3-SAE should simply work, I can certainly try to provide a minimally reproducible config when my wife isn't in the middle of some AWS exam studies.